February 6, 2009 – Desert Independent – USA
Q: I have been doing self-improvement work for years. It has really changed my life and relationships. But I remain frustrated because I cannot seem to convince my best friend to get help. His marriage is on the rocks, he is impatient with his kids, and he has not been happy with his career for years. I have suggested your men’s weekend, counseling, books, etc. Nothing. I love this guy but I am ready to quit on him. You must have some sage advice for me.
A: You may be frustrated, but you’re a good friend. And good friends never quit on each other. What we need to do is get you clear on just what your purpose is and how best to go about realizing it.
You love your friend and you would like to see him be the best man, father and husband he can be, right? Because of the experiences you’ve had in asking for help and growing as a man, you’d like to see the same for your buddy. No problem there. The problem comes when you want it for him more than he wants it for him. Read more.
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